My
twin boys are pretty typical 4 1/2 year-olds - active, social and
loving, and for a long time they were into animals, trucks, trains and
cars. We read and watched a lot of Curious George, Miss Spider, and
Thomas. We got lots of educational DK books on trains, cars, animals
and trucks.
This last year however, my boys' interests have begun to radically change and diverge. One of them, let's call him.....Gun Boy, loves all things battle-related - Star Wars, Transformers, Pokemon, his 2 index fingers. He knows all the names of the good guy Transformers and the bad guy Transformers, and he knows that Sheildon is a Rock-type Pokemon. (Don't get me started.) He sleeps with his Buzz Lightyear blaster and he would sell his soul for a light saber.
My
other one, loves loves loves.......Barbie (and Ariel, Belle,
Aurora and Jasmine). He has Barbie stickers, Princess and Barbie
books and DVDs, a Disney Princess sleeping bag, and his
prize-possession - a Sleeping Beauty doll. He swooned when he met
Belle at Disneyland.
Here is a typical exchange these days:
Me: What should we read/watch/play?
Gun Boy: Transformers!
Pink Boy: Barbie!
Me: How 'bout _________? (some other non-Battle or Barbie/Princess related item)
Them: (screams of agony)
For an ex-hippie Berkeley grad (me), and a card-carrying member of Greenpeace (my husband, Donn) - it's hard to believe that we are parents of gun-toting, Barbie-loving children. But what are you going to do. Sometimes we talk about gently steering them towards other interests, but it's what they love right now. Neither Donn nor I had a lot of this stuff when we were growing up, so maybe we are fulfilling our own fantasies, too. We hope these phases pass soon, but in the meantime it's Barbie vs Transformers at the Kim-Denman family.
Original post to Mad About Multiples by Nora Kim.
When not watching Barbie battle it out against the Transformers, Nora retreats to her newly launched business, The Flip Flop Design Shop.







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